There will be no plusses this time around. I’m in a mood.

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- Sex and the City 2. I do not care. As soon as Carrie took back Big after making a complete ass of her at the wedding in the first movie, I was done. Actually, I was pretty disgusted with her character the entire series for always taking him back. Low self-esteem? He was not that charming. The only one I ever really liked was Samantha. The woman had balls but seriously, has anyone ever done a tally of how many men they slept with? Hold on. Let me Google this. Ahhh, about 94 between the 4 of them.
- The BP oil spill. Between rig inspectors on meth, inspectors of the actual part that broke not doing their job, Halliburton being involved, all the political back-scratching that goes on with big oil, the Coast Guard not doing their job, the Army Corps of Engineers not issuing permits or doing their job, BP openly defying the EPA, the finger-pointing, the loss of sea life, the loss of income for fishermen, the incomprehensible amount of destruction and pollution, the inaction of our president… I am at a loss for words.
- Everyone getting so damned upset over Arizona’s immigration law. Once again, my political opinions will probably piss some of you off but honestly, I couldn’t give two shits. First off, I am the daughter of a legal immigrant. I am all for legal immigration. What a lot of people don’t know is that the U.S. allows more legal immigrants here than every other country combined. Things got a bit tighter after 9-11, as they should, but if you go through the proper process you’re welcome here, to get screwed by the government like everyone else. In fact, Mexico’s citizenship process is more strict than that of the U.S. We live in a country where states are afforded their own laws. Arizona (and the rest of the country) is in the midst of an illegal immigration crisis. Our budgets, job supply, and resources are getting sucked dry by people who don’t contribute to the tax base and are here illegally! Hello! What part of illegal does no one seem to understand? Is Arizona law enforcement not allowed to address an issue of legality (only with probably cause) when federal agents can walk up to anyone (w/out probable cause) and ask for papers no questions asked? The federal government has been sitting on their asses about taking any action against the flood of illegals in this country because they don’t want to lose the Hispanic vote. I congratulate AZ for doing something the rest of the country has been unwilling to address… asking for goddamn proof of citizenship in the middle of a crisis and actually doing something about it.
- Losing your health insurance. I have had to make a ton of calls figuring out who sells my prescriptions for the cheapest amount (found them), calling my doctors (who I love) to see if they will still see me with a cash payment (they will), seeing if they can prescribe me generic versions (they can for one), seeing if cheaper options like Planned Parenthood carry my BC pills (they don’t), and researching other plans like health savings accounts. This is ridiculous.
In the spirit of the Secret Society of List Addicts, I’ll share with you some jobs I’ve considered over the course of my life.
- Veterinarian – first job I said when people asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up… until we had to take the sick beagle to the vet and I saw how they took temperatures. I was done.
- Animal cop – maybe I’ve been watching too much Animal Planet but I think I would actually do better as a vigilante because the red tape of the job ticks me off.

Watch – The Sick Kitten
- Astrophysics – I adore math and thought I had the potential to be one of those math geniuses… until I had the worst physics teacher known to man in high school and was ruined on the physics side. The fact that almost everything in life can be explained with an elegant equation is something I can really sink my teeth into. My bf thinks I’m a freak. Let’s do this.

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Statistician – my psych major exposed me to data collection, manipulation, and analysis with delicious
SPSS software, which pretty much taught me to never trust any stats you hear on the news. In all seriousness though, it’s a tangible and
pretty reliable way to learn about the world.
CHECK! THIS! OUT! and THIS. (I promise, it’s worth your time.)
- Florist – super green thumb here, think I have a good aesthetic eye… currently working on bonsai, would love to learn Ikebana. Who wouldn’t love to play with flowers all day?

- Fleeting thoughts – architectural artist, cupcake baker (but Richmond already has a few), line cook (been there, done that for every station, miss it), blogger (yeah right), RN (horrible decision, bad school choice, dropped out), any type of psych research (will be trying to get my foot in the door eventually)…
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- Now tell me, who wouldn’t want a taxidermy armadillo!?

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- Katie Sokoler of Color me Katie is a super positive photographer and street artist. Her blog is neat.
- Love love love this 3D printed nylon “Cell Cycle” cuff bracelet from Nervous System. Is it flexible or rigid?

- This home is perfection.
- the way the sun bleaches all your peach fuzz after being out all day
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- InStyle Magazine, I am done with you. Your stylists are boring and it’s all feeling very ooooold. The September issue yielded nothing more for me than an Elizabeth and James twig bracelet and a drapey Derek Lam dress. Chain strap purses and tweeds are in for Fall? No way! Why is everyone playing it safe these days? Somewhere in internet land, another blogger was noting how happy she was that the styles haven’t really changed much from last year… that she could continue to shop her closet and stay current. With everyone scared over the economy, I suppose that could be a relief. I just wouldn’t mind seeing a little more creativity in the styling department. That is all.
- Bizarre rash… on my butt.
- Those days when you dribble coffee on yourself 3 times before you’ve even finished your first cup.
- Really not feeling the new Fall 2009 Marimekko fabric line. I’ve been looking for something grand to stretch onto a frame and hang up but I always end up leaning towards this 2003 design by Maija Louekari called “Hetkiä/Moments” (in any of the color variations). Sooo $$$ for a piece of fabric!

I’d also love this in the bedroom, from their Spring 2008 line. It’s called “Pelimanni” designed by Iiro A. Ahokas.

- Depressing stuff - This article about FIJI bottled water was an interesting read. Also, if you haven’t seen it yet, FLOW is a documentary about the bottled water industry that I really enjoyed.
Last night, I was curled up with the boy, perusing the interwebs. I wanted him to see Pinky Show. I’ve been a big fan for years but hadn’t caught up in a while. One of the newest episodes was “We Love Museums… Do Museums Love Us Back?” Check it out. It’s an extreme anti-intellectual viewpoint but it’s always good to see things through different eyes. (This one about the legalities of the Iraq war is my absolute favorite.)
So, this got me thinking about style blogs, especially NotCot.org and the like. This particular site is comprised of contributions by people like you and me (and probably a lot of self promotion) but it’s curated by these fine folks and their employees:
Founders, Jean Aw and Daniel Frysinger, are user experience obsessives (her background being a masters in interaction/ux design and his a BA in HCI/CS and was working for one of the few internet giants).
Sites like this as well and other fashion blogs, home decor blogs, tech blogs, and even this blog are telling readers what to value. These sites are little museums of sorts, showcasing the coveted and especially the NEW – everyone covets the new. What makes any of this important? I guess we all make our own personal decisions as to what we think is important or not but I have a feeling that our decisions are being carefully guided and sometimes I’m left feeling shallow and empty by all of this nonsense…
My google reader has over 600 unread posts and at this moment, I just don’t want to look at any of it. I’m going to go clean out my aquarium in my 7th grade gym shirt. Sometimes you just need to step away for a bit.
This summer, I had the sincere pleasure of taking one of the most challenging classes I had ever enrolled in. I don’t know why I even signed up. It wasn’t a requirement. I guess I’m just a glutton for punishment but, International Political Economy sounded like a swell subject. I’m a nerd at heart.
Well, this was an online course. We were told to read a book each week and write a lengthy paper supporting our own thesis which either agreed or disagreed with a certain point of view held by the author. We also had to participate in heated discussions online. The professor was, for the most part, absent yet very harsh in his criticisms when he managed to be back from some economic journey to Russia. I got an A and I learned more than I ever have in one class, other than Physiological Psych.
These were my favorite books out of the class and I recommend anyone interested in the fashion industry to read these to have a broader idea of what is going on in the world and how manufacturing effects all of us, since clothing manufacturing is one the first things an impoverished nation resorts to when it’s pulling itself up.
The Travels of a T-Shirt in the Global Economy
The Bottom Billion
In Defense of Globalization
The Challenge of Global Capitalism
Markets and States in Tropical Africa
The focus of the class was globalization. Is it a good or a bad thing and how can both sides of the debate be satisfied? Sweatshop work and the textile industry was a huge focus of all the authors I read.
Recently, the blog, The Coveted, brought up the important topic (and had a huge debate in the comments) about cheap clothing and the supposed detriments to society because of it. I, of course, had to put my 5 cents in because nothing bothers me more than wrong assumptions and misinformation. I was questioned as to why I thought the used clothing markets of Africa are a good thing so I had to elaborate a bit further (I can get really long-winded on things I’m passionate about).
So, there you go. That’s where I stand on that issue. I probably would’ve jumped on the “exploitation” band wagon too had I not read a damn book about t-shirts. It’s so easy to play the bleeding heart these days and instantly demonize everyone else who doesn’t but we all need to take a deep breath sometimes, before we go off half-cocked on a sensitive subject – especially a subject that involves people on the other side of the globe that we have no way of relating to whatsoever.
This leads me to the rest of what I want to say here. Not everyone wants to be like us. Not everyone has the same priorities as we do. Not everyone wants our interference. No one wants our damn pity. Everyone wants to get out of extreme poverty with dignity.
Sweatshops. Oh yeah. Let’s go there.
I will say that human rights organizations are a HUGE part in the fair treatment of what is usually an unskilled rural, docile, female workforce. When a country first decides to get industrialized (which is the first step in getting out of extreme poverty), it is primarily women from farms who move to the industrial zones to work. Textiles/clothing are usually the first things to get manufactured in these struggling countries and the women definitely work incredibly long hours in poor conditions. These conditions get better over time. The women gain experience. They ban together. They demand more for themselves and through their experience can look for better jobs when they become available. These women would rather work for 18 hours in a factory where they can make their own decisions, can spend their own money how they see fit, are away from their oppressive patriarchal farming families where their fathers want to tell them who they have to marry… and they still make 10 times more than their fathers do with less back-breaking work.
After these newly industrialized countries gather an experienced workforce, more advanced markets come in, like electronics and whatnot, which require more skill. These women (and men) go to night school, choose thier own partners, begin to work less hours, get promotions, make lives for themselves… and we pay less for a product.
So do you want to buy nothing but American? Well, then, do you want to have millions of people starving all over South Asia, Eastern Europe and South America? These people are relying on us to buy their products so that they have jobs to take care of their families. We rely on them to make things for less money so that we can save enough money to take care of our families. $5 here and $5 there are two entirely different things but we’re all just trying to survive.
I would also recommend you watch Frontline’s special China in the Red. It will explain so so much.
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- I know everyone in fashion blog land is going insane over the triple lace-up Ann Demeulemeester boots but, I just don’t get it. The lacing detail is exquisite but the heeled version is atrociously awkward and the flat heeled version has such a delicate sole. I’m craving a more serious footprint – a boot that could do some damage – a boot reminiscent of the 20 eyelet Dr. Martens I should’ve gotten instead of the wimpy 8-eyes when I was 13 years old. These are a steal – not leather but not something you would wear every day anyhow. This is what I’m talking about.

There’s also a size 8 pair left at Hot Topic of an identical style for $24.98!!!!
- I pretty much want everything by MK2K.
- This is probably one of the most gorgeous bags I’ve ever seen.

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- Being sick is the absolute worst, especially when you have a mountain of reading assignments piling up. I really shouldn’t have gone to karaoke last night!
- Every fall I’m continually disappointed with the fur ads in fashion magazines. I can’t believe that after all the protests and campaigns, people can still stomach buying fur. I’m espcially ashamed of Rick Owens, one of my favorite designers, with the saturation of fur in his Fall 2008 collection. This is just hilarious!
- I have desperately wanted to discuss current politics with someone who is bipartisan and reasonable. Unfortunately everyone is so sucked up in Obama mania that I don’t feel I can have an unbiased conversation based on rationale and an intelligent understanding of how our government and economy works.
- Sometimes it’s when people are about to move away that you realize how you should’ve spent more time with them when they were near.
- Is it wrong that I found the Disney villains to be more beautiful than Snow White and Sleeping Beauty, or that I had a major crush on Tim Curry as the Prince of Darkness in Legend when I was a child (he oozed masculine power and sex appeal), or that I was obsessed with Vincent D’Onofrio in The Cell?

