Since I didn’t seen anything that rocked my socks at the after x-mas sales, I figured I’d do a fantasy shopping trip on Net-a-Porter. It’s been a while.

Miu Miu metallic-trimmed wedge sandals – $690

Tucker pajama-style silk shirt – $355

Vionnet embellished suede sandals – $925

Burberry London silk-georgette dress – $850

Alexander Wang hand-knitted stretch-cotton open-knit sweater – $495

Prabal Gurung cutout polka-dot silk-gazar pencil skirt – $925

Vionette one-shoulder stretch-crepe dress – $2,430

La Perla vintage embroidered mesh bodysuit – $495

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It’s been a long time since I hit up my fave Goodwill. With all the Christmas shopping done and cards finally mailed off yesterday, I popped in and scored two new-with-tags striped items for $9 total.

Goodwill has been getting the leftover clearance items from Target and I got this cozy cardigan (wearing it right now):

I also got a boxy grey striped tee with tags from Nordstrom still on it by Robin K. I didn’t find a pic but it has slanted stripe side panels and it’s a bit longer in the back.

I saved about $50! Heck yeah!

So, what have you gotten for yourself while out Christmas shopping?

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We’re always talking about purging our closets, getting rid of clutter… all in the hopes of not becoming a hoarder and ultimately refining our style.

Why are we being so hard on ourselves about keeping things we like?

There’s that “1 in 1 out” rule where you get rid of something old when you buy something new. This can also apply to home decor items. I actually did this for a while with shoes and soon ended up playing games with myself… holding onto shoes I didn’t want anymore during the initial purge, just so I could use them in the next trade. Ha! The more I thought about it, it’s such a stupid guideline. I mean, how do you decide what the perfect number of things is? Is it based on space available? It it some arbitrary number you pull out of the air? What if you really don’t want to get rid of something? The only thing I see this working well for is your basics. Your fave white tee bites the dust so you toss it and get a replacement. That makes sense. This obsession with an ultra-minimalist lifestyle is kinda grating on me lately.

There’s the “If you haven’t worn it in 1-3 years, it’s time for it to go” rule. This one makes some sense to me but it still can’t be a hard and fast rule. What about formal wear? What about that fantastic skirt you simply adore and really want to hold on to? Is it hurting anything to keep it? What about wanting to hand things down to your daughter? Women’s weight fluctuates so much too so, I see nothing wrong with keeping a size up and down in your closet as well, just in case.

There are plenty of ladies who are pure collectors. They buy unique pieces and have amazing wardrobes of well-made items. Things go in and out of style so frequently, I wish I still had a lot of my clothes from 10 years ago. Frequently, I have purger’s remorse. If I had the closet space and the money, I would love a collection that spanned decades!

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There are those who subscribe to the French mindset of shopping – keeping a basic wardrobe of classics and only adding 3 or so key pieces every season. This makes you pause and really think about the look you want to achieve that particular season and what trends you’re interested in, carefully editing your shopping list. It allows you to shop a bit more extravagantly on a few quality items rather than a ton of cheap stuff. I have never done this – sitting down with a budget and list in mind, having everything else work around a few new pricier items, sourcing, buying them and being done. I definitely know when my wardrobe is missing a key item though. For instance, I’ve been on the hunt for the perfect brown knee boots for years. This Christmas I finally get them!

I kinda just get non-basic things as I see them. “Oh! I like those shoes! Oh! I like that sweater!” It’s all pretty compulsive and I don’t think much about how it will work with what I already have. That’s when you end up standing in front of your full closet and feeling like you have nothing to wear. I don’t think in terms of outfits. Well, when you pretty much wear jeans all the time… any sweater will go with anything but… you know what I mean.

So, how do you shop and approach your wardrobe?

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I’ve gushed about Wendy Brandes and her jewelry here before in this post.

She’s so good to the community of other bloggers out there and lately has been doing a style column for The Huffington Post style section Styleist. She includes pictures of real-life women wearing the latest trends.

She recently asked for pics of ladies in peplum styles and I submitted myself in a red jacket I scored on eBay years ago and forgot about.

Here’s the peplum post.

Here are some Ulti approved outtakes (pre-haircut):

Thanks again Wendy!

Follow Wendy on Twitter!

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New Years Eve is approaching fast. Are you going out? I still have no idea what we’re doing. We went out to a fancy dinner last year and I passed out on the couch. Year before last, we walked around the neighborhood drinking champagne, witnessed a car accident and made it back in time for the ball to drop. I hope I do something this year worth dressing up for!

I’m not big on ultra formal shoes. My sparkly silver strappy numbers have only been worn once and that’s such a waste. My feet would also freeze in them this time of year. Here are some picks for New Years celebrating that will keep your toes warm and can also be worn the rest of winter!

Check out Macy’s for more great party shoes!

Nine West Riddleme Pumps

These would pretty much go with anything and can take you to the office as well.

Bestey Johnson Sydnee Flats – in other colors

Gold flats with a fancy metal flower! These could be your spare switch-out shoes when heels start to kill your feet. They’ll also go with everything!

INC International Concepts Gallia Booties

I want some red booties so badly! These would look great with skinnies and a fluffy sweater after your celebrating is done.

Nine West Delly Booties

I’m not big on sequins but c’mon! These are fabulous, plus that sturdy heel and small platform mean you’ll get a lot of wear out of them.

Boutique 9 Victorie Pumps – also in black suede

I adore this shape heel. It’s so modern.

What are you doing/wearing for New Years Eve?

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I received my November issue of Harper’s Bazaar yesterday and once again the last page has pissed me off. Rife with contradictions, I had to leave my own commentary.

Oh, and I looked up “outre attire” – extravagant, bizarre, outlandish – oh give me a fucking break.

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I’ve had the sewing itch for a while now but I couldn’t think of anything I wanted to make. I have enough pillows and they’re kinda boring to sew. Then, a few days ago an old friend emailed me asking if I could make her Halloween costume. She wants to be Wilfred the dog:

How cute right?

I need to get her measurements and we’re going to pick out furry fabric in a couple weeks. The pattern I’m using, I’ve already made 2 costumes from. Here’s my friend Bobby and I from 2008. I was a hamster.

It’s soooo easy and you can customize it in a lot of ways!

purchase here

Soooo anyhow, this costume will be quick and I still have a desire to make something for myself. I’ve been checking out all the Spring 2012 shows coming in and I saw this top by Badgley Mischka. I am totally doing this.

I’ve never made my own pattern that required lining. I need to figure out how this puzzle is going to get put together. Brainstorming time.  Maybe a hidden side zip and sew the tie flaps into the side seams. A light synthetic blend linen? I think I’m actually going to have to sew a muslin/prototype first.

Wish me luck!

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Has Christian Louboutin been perusing the aisles of Michael’s crafts?

$1,595!!!!

From the 2011 Sept issue of Harper’s Bazaar

So, uhm, yeah… if any of you want something like this, let me know. I can make this happen and it won’t be $1600.

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Neivz cuff at Moxsie $65

Maria Dahlgren Breakfast in Bed Tray $26

felt circle artwork

Red Pepper Quilts

dot mani

The Dainty Squid pouch $15.75

Maya Hayuk

Tom Binns

colorful cabinets

Thread Social

Mrs Kitty’s freehand embroidery

drawing by James Bills

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I cleaned out my closet a few days ago and rediscovered a pair of jeans I bought at the end of last summer. They’re from Old Navy and I got them on extra clearance clearance for less than $5.

They’re “The Flirt” denim style – a mid rise fit that I’m really loving. (It’s amazing how much slimmer you look when the muffin top is eliminated.)

These particular jeans are 98% cotton, 2% spandex. Super soft, comfy, with a little give. You also don’t get plumber butt when you bend over! They were a special pair offered, with faded white paint speckles and a flare leg.

So here I am in all my bloated glory!

Now what I don’t get is Old Navy’s sizes.

First off, their vanity sizing is ridiculous. I’m roughly a size 6-8, and these are a size 4 and still have some room when I’m pms-ing.

Second, their size chart is bananas because I’m now a 38-28-38 (Mötley Crüe’s ideal size! Ha!) and I’m fitting in a size 4 when they say I should be in an 8.

Oh! These were also “regular” inseam but measured the same as what they say is “short”. WTF?

I really want to try their wide legged trouser version:

These are just 1% spandex. That could make a HUGE difference. It’s a shame I have to try on every damn thing in-store instead of just ordering online. Could stores be a bit more consistent with their denim lines and size charts?

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